30 Informative How-to Relationship Books you Need to Read
by Nancy Fagan, Relationship Resolution Center
Every week people ask me for book recommendations related to the issues they are dealing with in their lives. Because I'm a marriage counselor, I try to read as many books on the topic as possible. Some are pretty good and offer helpful advice to help with relationship problems or dealing with breakups. Others, however, are awful. I'd hate to have you waste your time with one of these.
Below is a list of my favorite books, broken into categories of common issues people experience at different stages in their lives: "Should I stay married or not," "Books to improve your marriage," "Books about divorce," "Books about surviving divorce," and "Books about parenting and divorce."
If you have read a helpful book that is not listed, please let me know, and I will add it. Enjoy!
Should I Stay in My Marriage or Not?
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder
Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved
Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
Books to Improve Your Marriage
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You’re Far Apart
Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps: Even If Only YOU Want To!
Fighting for Your Marriage: A Deluxe Revised Edition of the Classic Best-seller for Enhancing Marriage and Preventing Divorce
The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage
Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting® Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
Books About Divorce
The Financially Smart Divorce: Three Steps To Your Ideal Settlement and Financial Security in Your New Life!
Divorce Made Simple: The Ultimate Guide by a Former Family Judge (Volume 1)
Divorce: Taking the High Road: Simple Strategies for Creating a Healthy Divorce
Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield
Books About Surviving Divorce
The Divorce Recovery Workbook: How to Heal from Anger, Hurt, and Resentment and Build the Life You Want
Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
Grieving the Loss of a Love: How to Embrace Grief to Find True Hope and Healing After a Divorce, Breakup, or Death
Books About Parenting and Divorce
Fables of Fairy Good Heart: Divorce-A Parent's Love Lasts Forever
Talking to Children About Divorce: A Parent's Guide to Healthy Communication at Each Stage of Divorce
Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way
Why Can't We Live Together?: The Kid-Sized Answer To A King-Sized Question About Divorce
Family Changes: Explaining Divorce to Children
Relationships are not easy. Recovering from a breakup is not easy. Thankfully, there are many on the market to turn to when you need advice, inspiration, or guidance.
Most books are available in electronic form these days, so you don't have to suffer the embarrassment of purchasing a book at a store.
Nancy Fagan is the founder of the Relationship Resolution Center, an online counseling, mediation, and coaching business. She holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology and is the former owner of the largest divorce mediation firm in San Diego. She is a 3-time published author and has appeared on countless television, radio shows, and quoted in national magazines since 1997.
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